Things to keep in mind, before you lend a helping hand For people who go through hardships, it's difficult to keep the presence in mind and make rational decisions to overcome their current situation. The supporter should keep this in mind first. The objective of the supporter should be to listen and understand these problems and provide solutions, advice or suggestions. Depending on the level of friendship/trust/closeness between the person and supporter, the supporter can provide one or all of these. This is the second thing that the supporter should keep in mind. Some people, even though how close they are to you, are not ready to accept support. Some people heed what you say, but do not act upon your guidance or suggestions. Therefore, your actions might not yield your expected results always. As a supporter, you should not be disappointed or discouraged by this. This is the third point to keep in mind. How to help and support The person who go through hardship will h...
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